Open adoption is a term generally used to describe a variety of arrangements allowing for ongoing contact between members of the 'adoption triad' (adoptive family, birth family, and adopted child). The level of openness in any relationship varies widely. Degrees of open arrangements span from mediated contact, which implies letters and photographs sent through a third party (so that the adoptive family can maintain privacy), to full disclosure of the adoptive family's personal information. In fully open adoptions, there is actual physical contact, through meetings and visits between the birth family and the adptive family. Sometimes an adoption agency may describe an adoption as 'open' when the birth-mother (and/or birth-father) may have a say or may make the actual decision on who is chosen to parent their child, though this is not the generally accepted definition.
An adoption where the adoptive and birth parents had contact at least during the adoption process.[1] In many cases, adoption was seen as a social support: young children were adopted out not only to help their parents (by reducing the number of children they had to support) but also to help another family by providing an apprentice.
Adoptions became closed when social pressures mandated that families preserve the myth that they were formed biologically. One researcher has referred to these families, that made every attempt to match the child physically to their adoptive families, as 'as if' families.[2]
Openness became the norm when infants available for adoption became scarce, and birth parents had contact at least during the adoption process.[1] In many cases, adoption was seen as a social support: young children were adopted out not only to help their parents (by reducing the number of children they had to support) but also to help another family by providing an apprentice.
Adoptions became closed when social pressures mandated that families preserve
Eva Adoption Video
lehmanfive
7 min - Sep 8, 2007
This is a video of our journey to Ethiopia to adopt our little girl, Eva.
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Lonely... This Girls Adoption
justcari
7 min - Oct 3, 2006
Open domestic adoption... Follow me through pregnancy, birth, and the walking away all in order to give a very special baby girl everything I couldn't give her. I will ALWAYS love her, and nothing will ever replace her. She means the world to me, so I did what was best for her...
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Teenage Adoption
2 min - May 21, 2007
This is my shocking story. Pleas watch
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Hank's Adoption Announcement
hoolym
4 min - Aug 22, 2006
This is Hank's adoption announcement.
The question I've been getting the most is "Is he really Chinese?" Yes, he is. Hank has Albinism This site http://www.albinism.org/ does a much better job explaining it than I can!
The song is "Solsbury Hill" by Peter Gabriel.
The lyrics can be found here
http://www.lyricsfreak.com/p/peter+gabriel/solsbury+hill_20107506.html
We were in China for 2 weeks. Hank was from the Suzhou Social Welfare Insitute (orphanage) which we were allowed to visit but we spent most of the time in the cities of Nanjing (for the China paperwork) and Guangzhou (for the U.S. paperwork).
Enjoy!
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Baby Exporting Nation: The Two Faces of Inter-Country Adoption
52 min - Jan 1, 2007This is the first critical documentary to come out of Korea about inter-country adoption. Aired May 2005 in Korea. English subtitles
KBS synopsis:
A 20-year-old unwed mother asked the In-Depth 60 minutes team to help her find her baby. According to her, the baby was taken by an adoption agency without her consent, as soon as she gave birth at an Ob&Gyn Clinic. The transaction of money in the background was traced between the clinic and the adoption agency related to this. Why is money involved to secure babies for adoption?
2300 children are adopted abroad among a total of 3800 adoptions annually. Human rights organizations criticize the government's encouragement of exporting babies. Especially, overseas adoptions have a lot of problems due to the lack of a proper system to provide post adoption services. This is a shameful portrait of Korea, the world's 10th biggest economy and a member of OECD. In-depth 60 Minutes is investigating the truth of rumours regarding overseas adoption through shocking stories of unwed mothers who were robbed of their name of "mother" and through the voices of adoptees who are returning to Korea
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The Miracle of Adoption
MrAvery
5 min - Apr 6, 2007
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The journey that our family has taken in order to be united with our adopted Ethiopian children; the faithfulness of God to see us through financial obstacles, red tape, unethical practices, and much sorrow; the miracle that God performed when He made two orphans our very own.
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Keeping Kids Healthy: Adoption - A Forever FamilyMontefiore Medical Center in Association with WNET
27 min - Sep 27, 2006What's it like to adopt, or to be adopted? Maybe you have been thinking about adopting a child. Or perhaps you are wondering, "Will I love an adopted child as much as a child I gave birth to?" Or, "What if the birth mother changes her mind?" Or you may not even know how to adopt. What kind of adoption is right for you and your family? Private? International? Foster Care? Regardless of the path, adoption can greatly enrich your life. Join host, Dr. Winnie King as we meet several families who have adopted through different paths (private, international and foster-care), a pediatrician specializing in adoption (and mother of three adopted children) and you'll hear the remarkable story of a man who, at four years old, entered the foster care system with his six-month old brother and now, along with his wife, has three biological daughters and four adopted sons.
GUESTS (both on set and in video segments):
Deborah Borchers, M.D, F.A.A.P. - Pediatrician; Member of the American Academy of Pediatrics Committee on Adoption.
Mother of 3 daughters adopted internationally
Deborah's adopted children:
Anna Borchers (12)
Sara Borchers (9)
Krista Borchers (5)
Jean and David Gray, Adoptive Parents
Jean and David's adopted children
David Gray (10)
Grace-Ann Gray (5)
Shane and Gloria Salter - parents of foster children; Shane is the Executive Director of North American Council on Adoptable Children
Shane & Gloria's biological daughter
Brittney Gray (15)
Shane & Gloria's adopted sons
Moye Salter (8)
Nigel Salter (7)
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